| Sometimes lovers and husbands are a
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| | His odd mood manifests itself as a desire
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| mystery. One moment, they can be the
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| | to make love more often. If you're in the
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| sweetest, most loving, individuals on the
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| | mood, why not indulge yourself. Maybe he
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| planet; happily laughing away at some
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| | is just seeing you in a special new
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| silly thing on TV, and the next they're
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| | light...it might not be so bad...then
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| in a dark and gloomy mode; brooding and
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| | again, it may be just his way of dealing
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| sullen; or even hurtling insults and
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| | with some unspoken stress.
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| accusations. Of course you didn't do
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| | Sometimes it helps to interject a little
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| anything to start it...that rarely
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| | humor into tense situations. Although, I
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| matters.
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| | doubt that he will appreciate any "jokey"
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| Figuring out why guys snap into these
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| | jabs you make at his expense; it's not a
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| moods can be like trying to do caluculus
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| | bad idea, to play the good guy in this
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| in your head....close to impossible, and
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| | situation and try to coax him out of the
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| ultimately a waste of time. Because
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| | bad mood with a bit of levity. Just
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| before you know it, he's renting a DVD,
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| | remember to keep your objectivity if you
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| popping your favorite buttered snack, and
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| | decide to stick around to ride it out
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| offering to massage your feet while to
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| | (your choice, you know him better than
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| two of you snuggle on the couch for the
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| | anyone); don't get roped into name
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| evening in front of a romantic comedy!
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| | calling; the blame game; the crying game,
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| The real trick is getting from here to
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| | or playing the victom or martyr.
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| there, from ugliness to sheer bliss
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| | Doing so will only land you dead center
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| without being drawn into an all out war
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| | ring face to face with an angry sumo like
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| of the words!
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| | opponet who doesn't mind taking the
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| You can do this by keeping in mind that
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| | gloves off for a little dirty fighting.
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| he is only human and most likely dealing
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| | Keep your cool...leave the room...leave
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| with some internal struggle that has
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| | the house....start dinner....turn on some
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| nothing at all to do with you (regardless
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| | soothing jazz (music truly does soothe
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| of what he says).
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| | the savage beast...let it work it's
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| You can also try reframing his unexpected
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| | healing powers on your man); do whatever
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| and often unpredictable behavior in a new
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| | it takes to stay emotionally seperated
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| and comical light...it'll help you to
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| | from the situation.
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| stay above the fray just long enough to
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| | Distract him...pop in a video, turn on
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| let him realize what a dufus he is being!
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| | the TV; put on a bikini...do what you
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| Later he'll appreciate your cool facade
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| | have to do to snap him out of it.
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| and aplomb as he clumsily confesses the
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| | For more quick ideas on how you can
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| truth behind his strange behavior and
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| | instantly defuse a sticky situation; calm
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| pitifully begs for your forgiveness.
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| | a lover and stop an argument dead in it's
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| Here are a few new ways to explain your
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| | tracks, go to: 50 Secrets of Blissful
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| lover's testy; unruly; stubborn or hard
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| | Relationships!
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| headed; cranky or otherwise childish
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| | Avoid confronting him verbally...since
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| behavior.
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| | you won't actually be dealing with him,
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| They'll help you weather unexpected mood
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| | but the problem and situation that he is
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| swings and unfair outbursts, so that you
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| | secretly facing inside his own brain.
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| don't get roped into yet one more
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| | Most guys face their problems alone;
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| non-sense argument or discussion.
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| | internalizing on-the-job harrassment or
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| 1:) He has recently seen a "Shrek"
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| | other work related problems; traffic
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| marathon, and is just doing his best ogre
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| | irritations; in-law woes, etc., until
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| impersonation for your benefit. I know
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| | these events bubble over into their
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| that you'll be tempted, but try not to
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| | relationships.
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| giggle as you imagine him turning a
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| | Keep in mind, that an outside influence,
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| lovely shade of green.
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| | i.e. one of your ex-boyfriends, one of
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| 2:) Personality stealing aliens have
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| | his ex-girlfriends, your mom or dad, or
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| secretly switched your regularly sweet
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| | other person who is skilled at pushing
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| and sensitve man, with an insensitive
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| | his buttons, may be behind his recent
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| oaf, and are merely conducting an
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| | change in behavior.
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| experiement to see if you notice the
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| | Sometimes well meaning parents and "best
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| difference.
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| | friends" can do severe injustice to your
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| 3:) Call the Inquirer! Your man is
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| | happy home by working against your best
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| officially the first guy to truly
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| | interest behind your back.
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| experience PMS first hand, complete with
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| | Try to root out the cause or culprit, if
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| splitting migraines, cramps, bloating and
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| | possible, (after his sour mood has
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| oh yes, the dreaded hormones. Pull out
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| | lifted) so that it doesn't damage your
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| the hot water bottle, some advil and a
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| | relationship. If another person is at the
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| sad tear jerker movie. It's going to be a
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| | root of his newfound problems, he will
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| long week of bonding.
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| | more than likely hand them over to you on
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| 4:) He has temporarily swapped brains
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| | a silver platter.
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| with an insensitive time traveling cave
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| | Whatever the cause, he should snap out of
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| man from prehistoric times. Your sweetie
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| | it by himself within just a little
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| can't help it. Men of yester year,
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| | bit...guy moods don't last forever...
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| weren't always held to the same modern
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| | When he does, he will want to talk about
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| day behavior standards. Most times it
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| | it...apologize; cry; grovel...
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| was considered just good enough to
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| | Try to be the bigger person; try to
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| survive. How can he be expected to act
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| | forgive, or at least confess that you've
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| like a gentleman, when he'd rather be out
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| | had a few bad days too.
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| swinging a club and chasing down an
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| | Chances are, there is a logical
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| antelope on foot! In his mind, he is
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| | explanation as to why he has been acting
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| acting in a perfectly acceptable manner.
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| | so weird.
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| Refuse to get drawn into his cave man
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| | Be there. Listen. Offer support and hugs.
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| drama. Go for a run instead.
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| | If he apologizes; if he accepts the
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| 5:) He's practicing for the role of the
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| | blame, or at least pinpoints the culprit
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| boogey man in a remake of Rosemary's
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| | and promises to reform, try to move
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| baby. This one might turn out as
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| | on...there's no sense in dragging him
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| hideously for you as it did for the last
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| | through the mud for having a bad day.
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| Rosemary. Put some distance in between
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| | If he's a jerk, you probably wouldn't
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| you and devil man, before permanant
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| | have stayed with him this long....chances
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| damage occurs. Later he'll grovel and
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| | are, it's a one time thing that he
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| crawl back...claiming not to remember the
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| | regretted saying the moment it was out of
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| horrible things he said. Possessed people
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| | his mouth...give him a redo...a second
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| rarely do!
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| | chance...if he deserves it...
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| 6:) You show up at the breakfast table
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| | Look, we all make mistakes...
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| dressed in a ratty old nightie and he
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| | A little generosity of spirit and
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| eyes you like you're the last pork chop
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| | sensitivity now, can work in your favor,
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| on the buffet table, and he's the
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| | the next time you find yourself in the
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| starving man, who hasn't had a meal in
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| | middle of one of those horrid days that
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| weeks.
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| | just won't quit.
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