Children And Holidays : A Year Round Celebration

hildren, every month of the year should be aJuly 4 - American Independence Day
fun-filled celebration of something special, fromSeptember - Grandparents Day
large occasions like the birth of a new brother orSeptember 15 to October 15 - Hispanic Heritage
sister, a child's birthday, or Christmas, to theMonth
smaller milestones of everyday life, such as losingOctober 12 - Columbus Day
the first baby tooth or coming to the end ofOctober 31 - Halloween
another school year. Often families hold large-scaleNovember - American Indian/Alaska Native
celebrations surrounding certain events, but mayHeritage Month
pass others over entirely. The purpose of thisNovember - National Children's Book Weeklate
article is to suggest ways in which parents canNovember - Thanksgivinglate November or
make every month special and uniquelyDecember - Chanukah
memorable for their children.December 25 - Christmas
Picture the scene. It's Christmastime. ManyDecember 26 to January 1 - Kwanzaa
homes, especially if there are children, are framedTo find detailed information on designs to use or
in twinkling lights, have Christmas wreaths hangingspecial pictures and symbols to go with each
on the front doors, and perhaps Santa's sleighevent, you can consult Internet or find a book on
adorning the front lawn, in addition to a lovinglyholidays at your local library. Whatever your
trimmed Christmas tree in the livingroom. The actreligion, you may also want to decorate your
of making or putting up these decorationshome for your faith’s unique holidays and
provides a special opportunity for parents andtraditional celebrations, the Jewish harvest festival
children to participate in a creative endeavorof Sukkot, for example. Don't forget to doll up
together. It heightens the child's anticipation of thethe place for all personal family events, too, such
big holiday to come and provides an enjoyableas each family member's birthday, graduations,
day spent doing things together.anniversaries and the like. How about celebrating
Because of its association with a very specialwhen your child successfully learns to ride a
annual event, it may particularly stand out in thebicycle or loses a baby tooth ? You might even
child's mind and even become a cherishedmark the arrival of a new pet, or a long overdue
childhood memory, lasting long after the child hasvisit from a favorite relative who lives far away.
grown into adulthood. Moments such as theseFor each event, you may or may not choose to
linger and contribute to the special bond betweenuse some store-bought ornaments and objects
parents and children and become tenderrelated to the festivity, but you should also
memories that grown children and their parentsalways include many homemade decorations. The
can hold onto forever.art sessions during which you and your children
After New Year's Day, when the Christmas treedesign and make your own decorations add to
comes down and the last string of tiny light bulbsfamily closeness and create special memories in
has been packed away, it's a bit of a letdown andand of themselves. They also encourage your
signals a return to the routine passing of the days.children to tap their own creativity, to develop
Well, instead of just packing away all of theseoriginal ideas and see them through, and to trust
fanciful flourishes for another year, why nottheir own instincts.
segue directly into another holiday ? In January,You might buy some basic materials, such as rolls
this could be preparations for Chinese New Yearof ribbon or crepe paper or rolls of colored
or for Valentine's Day. Why not put equal carecellophane and pipe cleaners, or really maximize
and attention into doing up the house for eachyour resourcefulness by relying primarily on odds
subsequent special event throughout the year ?and ends that you already have lying around the
With a bit of planning and effort, every monthhouse. These could include bits of colored
can mark a new festival of creativity, excitementconstruction paper, tin foil, crayons, cotton balls,
and anticipation. The house need never revert toleftover ribbons and yarn. Be careful, of course,
dullness and children need never feel that the fun'sto keep scissors and swallowable objects out of
all over until next year. This practice will also allowthe reach of small children and exercise caution if
your children to take pride in their own artisticyou have pets in your house. Please be careful
accomplishments, the fruits of which will be onnot to use any decorations or materials that may
display all around them.be poisonous, such as poinsettias, or otherwise
Here is a list of just some of the annual eventsharmful to pets. For example, cats may swallow
that you might wish to make a bigger fuss over,tinsel, which can then block their intestines, or
in terms of decorating a single room or decoratingpets may become tangled up in or choked by
your entire home, inside and out. You may evenlong, string-like strips of ribbon and such.
choose to make gift-giving a part of a broaderWhen plannng each project, let your kids decide
range of annual events, just for the pleasure ofwhat to make and where to put each item, or
giving. You might bake a special cake and have astart with one room plus an idea of that room's
party with a particular theme in mind, andoverall decorative potential, such as a garland
incorporate that theme into all of your tablehere, a mobile there, and a picture over there,
trimmings. Some of the following widelyand then set about to construct each desired
celebrated holidays and other special observanceselement. Take plenty of photos along the way,
have fixed dates, while others vary a bit fromnot only of your resplendant rooms once they've
year to year :been all gussied up, but also of your family's
January 1 - New Year's DaymidJanuary - Martin"making of" activities. You may even decide to
Luther King, Jr. Daystart a special photo album just for this purpose.
January - Chinese New YearLater, when the time comes to take down all of
February - African-American History Monththe decorations from a particular special event,
February 2 - Groundhog Daypack them lovingly away so that next year you
February 14 - Valentine's Daycan reuse some, in addition to creating some new
March - Women's History Monthones each year. You can gradually build up your
March 17 - Saint Patrick's Daylate March or April -own personal inventory of special ornaments and
Eastertrimmings for each event in the year. Then, in
April - National Library Weekyears to come, they can be brought out for
May - Older Americans Monthnostalgic afternoons with your adult children, or
May – Asian Pacific American Heritagefor sharing with your grandchidren. Each
Monthdecoration or photo will have its own story to tell
May - Be Kind To Animals WeekmidMay -and, after all, these are the special moments that
Mother's DaymidJune - Father's Daylifetime memories are made of.