Celebrating Holidays and Establishing Traditions

One of the most important aspects of family lifeshows in your area or visit memorials.
are establishing regular traditions and celebrating- Celebrate the beginning of summer in June.
holidays. Holidays can often be stressful chaoticChoose the longest night of the year to have a
times within our lives, and the little fun things havefestive cook out, visit a local swimming pool, or
a tendency to get lost. Regardless of the holidaysthe beach. Begin stargazing in your backyard. You
you choose to celebrate or the traditions youcan check out books and discover the
decide to have, it is important to have this senseconstellations and learn more about space
of regularity and togetherness. This gives theexploration.
family something to look forward to with- For the Fourth of July go see a community
anticipation and creates memories that will last afireworks display.
lifetime. Here are some of our tips that you may- Go to your local State or county fair each year.
choose to establish in your home.- Labor Day is set aside each year to honor the
- For Valentine's Day, have each family memberAmerican worker. Make this a family day and
decorate a valentine sack. Each family memberenjoy togetherness. It also symbolizes the waning
can put little gifts inside one another's bag and ondays of summer. Spend it with your family going
Valentine's Day you get to open your bag. Have ato a local swimming pool or lake, go camping, or
special family dinner. You and your spouse mightjust hang out in your backyard. Making
opt for a more romantic night the weekendhomemade ice cream in an old fashioned ice
following the holiday--if you are fortunate, get acream machine is a fun tradition kids will love.
babysitter.- Plan Halloween costumes weeks in advance.
- For President's Day choose a few presidentsHalloween is a fun holiday to decorate your home.
and put together a list of fun facts about them.Have older kids help you set up a haunted
Choose new President's each year. Have agraveyard in your front yard to greet trick or
Presidential themed dinner, choosing foods ortreaters. Make candied apples or popcorn balls
deserts that were a chosen President's favorite.together. Visit a pumpkin patch. Go on a hay ride
- For St. Patrick's Day put up some funat a local farm.
decorations and have a green themed meal.- During Thanksgiving, involve kids. This can be a
- For Easter, color and decorate eggs together.boring holiday for many kids, but it is an often
Have a big meal with extended family, and have aoverlooked and under celebrated holiday. Make a
huge egg hunt for all the kids. You can puttime within your meal to go around and each say
money, candy, or small trinkets in plastic eggs ora few things that you are thankful for. Let kids
use a wax crayon or marker to write onhelp prepare the foods. Visit or host family and
hardboiled decorated eggs for prizes. You canfriends. Volunteer to help a less fortunate person
have a contest for that gets the most eggs, etc.or charity during this time. Adopt a family and
- Celebrate Arbor Day and plant a tree. If yougive special gifts or the goods to make a dinner.
don't have a yard, plant a houseplant. It will be fun- For Christmastime, make homemade candy
to watch it grow over the years.cookies together. Make your own Christmas cards
- Celebrate Earth Day by supporting a cause ofand send them to family and friends. Visit
interest. You might choose to adopt a wild animal,community events such as zoo lights, community
switch to environmentally friendly cleaningcenters and recreation departments often
products, visit a health food store, or recyclingsponsor fun events. Go for a sleigh ride. Have fun
center.thinking of gift ideas to give each family member.
- In May, celebrate Cinco De Mayo by learningDecorate your tree together. Do a Christmas
how to cook a Mexican meal together as a family.village, and try to buy a new piece each year. Go
You can even make fun mocktails the kids willaround and look at light displays. Decorate your
enjoy.own home. Make cider, eggnog, or hot chocolate.
- Memorial Day is the time to pay tribute to our- For the first snow, make it a family tradition to
ancestors who have given their lives for thego sledding. When you are finished have some
freedoms we hold dear today. You can celebratehomemade hot cholcolate - the packaged stuff
this often overlooked holiday by visiting ayou get from the grocery store is never as good.
cemetery and decorating graves with flowers orHave a nice pot of chili or homemade soup
flags. You can fly a United States flag (it iscooking in your crock-pot and make fresh bread
recommended only at half-staff until noon).in the bread maker.
Attend parades, firework displays, or memorial